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  1. You feel it hit leather, but hear the whistle. Despite your best shot (or, rather, theirs), the puck got by you. You feel upset, swear, and get to thinking about why you're not playing well. It's incredibly easy to judge yourself as bad, unprepared, not what you used to be. You might think about all the missed opportunities this week to do off-ice, eat better, sleep, or hit a stick'n'puck. The most important thing you can do for your game is to 'let go.' There's nothing you can do at that time to make up for missed opportunities - or missed shots. Your best best is to let yourself be as prepared as you are and refocus on the game. It's a hard pill to swallow, but self-acceptance is a powerful tool to help yourself move on and focus on the next play. Have questions or want a specific mental game topic discussed, just send me a message!
  2. Most of your career, you’ve probably warmed-up with the rest of the team or been left to do your own thing. Either scenario leaves you with some know-how and knowledge gaps in exactly what a goaltender needs before a skate. Let’s get rid of the guesswork for you! Your position is unique, but only a fraction of your prep work needs to be goalie-specific. Let Dan Allison and Jess Buckley, Win Your Warm Up Co-Founders and professional strength coaches shed light on the process. When you’re in a pinch to get dressed for an adult league game, you can get away with some bare minimum stuff and still feel great: Release (optional; max five minutes) - This is your foam rolling or soft tissue work. It’s up to you which muscles and for how long you choose to roll. Resets (two minutes) - These give you range of motion back after being crunched up all day while also helping you relax out of that ‘wound up’ state. Readiness (five minutes) - It’s what you’re used to seeing; the drills that move you through your range of motion or give TLC to joints that gave you trouble in the past. In a pinch, that’s seven minutes to ensure you can breathe when the game’s hard and move in any direction at a moment’s notice. These tend to be good prep work regardless of your position. While Jess has done most of her work with skaters, Dan specializes in goalies at Omenvo Performance Academy, training folks from the NHL to college levels. So, what’s one thing Dan suggests about every goaltender do before they step on the ice? The 90/90 Hip Lift with Internal Rotation, which Dan explains, “helps prep the goalie to be able to rotate their hips inward and accept the stresses of typical goalie positions (RVH, Butterfly).” It’s easy-to-learn and you should feel the difference immediately - here’s how to do it. When you’re ready to learn some new warm-up drills, there’s resources out there for you! Two favorites are www.goalietrainingpro.com and www.theprehabguys.com. Both have a ton of anatomy, body care, and exercise technique information available. If the research seems daunting, eliminate the guesswork by letting Win Your Warm Up get your mental game and physical prep taken care of with a structured plan! However you choose to approach rule breaking and fact finding, have some fun with it and enjoy the process! If you’re looking for a few easy Release, Reset, and Readiness drills to get started, grab them here free.
  3. Every week, I get asked: what’s one drill I can use to focus better? My answer...there isn’t one. There’s lots of drills, it’s just a matter of finding what fits you best. The common themes to any focus drill are simple - identify something that needs your attention, effortfully focus on it, and return your attention to it when you become distracted. That last part is the most challenging one for athletes - returning attention to something fluidly after they become distracted. It requires a few skills, like being okay with the fact that you got distracted. It’s literally impossible to focus perfectly. Second, it requires you to have the wherewithal to quickly notice that your mind wandered away and return attention without getting upset about drifting off. Here’s an easy drill to reel focus in: Notice you’re distracted. Find what’s most important to your game in front of you. Focus on it. Sometimes that easy drill is easier said than done. You may find you need a bridge between the present moment and the distraction to help you ‘dial it in.’ For example: Notice you’re distracted. Quickly turn your attention to finding and feeling your center of gravity in your stance. Turn attention to what’s most important to the game in front of you. Focus on it. That little bridge between a distraction and the present moment is helpful, if you’re having trouble focusing and getting your mind off distractions. You get your mind off of something distracting long enough - onto something controllable, always present, and tangible - that refocusing on what’s really important becomes easier. Experiment with this drill and see how it goes! If you like it or want to really integrate mental skills training into your game play, check out Win Your Warm Up. It’s an online mental skills training platform that teaches you the mental game, warm up drills, and then how to integrate mental training into your pregame warm-up routine to play focused and feel ready. Give these skills a try for a week and see what happens to both your game and how you feel while you play. When you can't focus, you can't play your best. For goalies serious about building advanced focus skills and preparing well, take a look at Win Your Warm Up (www.winyourwarmup.com). WYW is an online platform teaching you mental skills and physical drills to perfect your pregame prep. You play your best focused and ready! Enjoy playing more focused and feel free to comment if you've got questions or situations to troubleshoot! Best, Mike Stacey mike@winyourwarmup.com Co-Founder, Win Your Warm Up Owner, Mike Stacey Mental Skills (MS2)
  4. Hey Old Guys & Adult League Players! 1.5 Hours of On-Ice Training for Beer League Adult Players $100.00! Bandits is hosting a Mini Clinic just for you! The details: What: 1.5 hours of ice on-ice instruction When: January 12, 2019, 4:45 p.m. - 6:15 p.m. Where: Farmington Hills Ice Arena, 35500 8 Mile Road, Farmington Hills, Michigan, 48335 Limited spots are available. Due to the high demand, we are limiting sign up to 16 goalies! Contact: Stan Matwijiw, Director of Operations, Bandits Goalie School, stan@banditsgoaltending.com Contact: Clayton Brown, Head Instructor, Bandits Goalie School, clayton.banditsgoaltending@gmail.com For all Adult League Goalies How often do you get to work on your game outside of well, games? Now is your chance! 1.5 hours of on-ice instruction where you will be able to actually practice your game with Professional Coaches. With our instruction you will be able to take your team deep into playoffs this season (sorry, boys! Golf league is starting late this year!). How about this for a New Year's Resolution?! All skill levels are welcome. This is a $250.00 value for only $100.00. For all you goalie that never got instruction - now is your chance! We will work hard, but let's be honest, we gotta be at work on Monday. Please contact owner and Director of Operations, Stan Matwijiw or Head Instructor Clayton Brown to sign up now!
  5. Thanks for being open to posting your question! My name's Mike, I'm a mental skills coach who works a whole bunch in hockey. By the sounds of it, confidence issue aren't at the core of what's going on in-game. Your confidence sounds like it's getting effected, but there's an important process you pointed out that would dip anybody's confidence! That process is the 'getting in your head' part and talking down to yourself. The strategies a lot of the folks pointed out - and thanks for being open to share your challenges, too - touch on an important skill. The skill being to acknowledging there's negative thoughts happening, then put your attention on the game. Having negative thoughts after a soft goal, bad rebound, or a really nice goal is totally normal and okay. Everybody has those and we even have negative thoughts when nothing's happened yet on the sheet. The notion that we need to force negative thoughts out or control them doesn't do us a lot of good. It sounds counter-intuitive to hear that. BUT, try not to think about a white elephant for 20 seconds. The more we focus on a thought or not having the thought, the more our attention gets pulled into our head space. If we're able to acknowledge and accept a negative thought as just a thought (not good, not bad, as something that just 'is') and recommit our attention to the game in front of us, we have a lot better chance of playing well. Learning to play well despite and in the presence of negative thoughts is a powerful skill. Strategies to build up present focus, mindfulness, the ability to accept negative events without judgement or attachment, and commitment to the here and now will all play into that skill. There is a lot of stuff out there to help build confidence, but it sounds like that's an upshot of a dysfunctional process and not the heart of the challenge you're tackling! Hope this helps! There's stuff on my Instagram (@S_and_A_Athletics), Twitter, and the Stacey And Associates Athletics Facebook and website (www.staceyandassociatesathletics.com) that all talk about this stuff. Feel free to give things a read, ask questions, and I'll do my best to help answer them or direct you to resources that can!
  6. Tyler, the owner of American Made Strength, asked my “opinions on the topics of superstitions and warm-up routines.” I understand their utility but there’s better ways of doing things, if a superstition turns problematic. Believing a ritual or special object has control over performance or a game outcome places faith somewhere other than skill, strategy, personal qualities, or fitness. You lend power to something potentially game-irrelevant. Superstitions give a sense of control over an outcome you can’t control or predict (Damisch, Stoberock, & Mussweiler, 2010). You’re realistically unable to forecast your or another team’s performance, the quality of coaching on either side, or how officials will call a game. Superstitious rituals are especially relied upon when a game’s results are personally important or we’re concerned about potential outcomes (Ohtsuka, 2016). We rarely rely on superstitions when results are guaranteed, we’re sure about the outcome, and confident in our skills. Rituals aren’t limited to the time before a game. They may surround specific situations or our execution of certain skills. Superstitions employed around in-game events (e.g. rushes, shootouts, penalty shots) may boost confidence in the skills necessary to succeed (Damisch, Stoberock, & Mussweiler, 2010). The relative ease of the task we’re about to perform factors into reliance on superstitions (Ohtsuka, 2016). For example, superstitions often occur around batting and pitching, but rarely before throwing to a base. The ease of throwing from one base to another and trust in our skill is greater relative to batting or pitching, although both are challenging tasks for the average person (Ohtsuka, 2016). If we have the skill to perform, what makes superstitions appealing? ***If you’re not interested in the theory stuff, hit ‘Page Down’ to scroll to the ‘How do I fix it?’ stuff Ritual use is part to do with our being intuitive thinkers (Shleifer, 2012). We rely on two avenues of thought in information processing and decision making – fast System 1 thinking and slower System 2 thinking (thought is likely more complicated than a two-tier system but this well fleshed-out model fits our purposes). Fast thinking, which does produce errors, had functionality in our survival as a species and still works for us today. System 1 thinking: -Uses cause-effect linking to help us make sense of the world (Ohtsuka, 2016) -Inclines us not to tempt fate (Ohtsuka, 2016) -Is nonstatistical (Shleifer, 2012) -Jumps to catastrophic outcomes easily (Ohtsuka, 2016) -Answers questions quickly through associations and resemblances (Shleifer, 2012) -Is gullible (Shleifer, 2012) -Uses a black and white perspective (Ohtsuka, 2016) -Employs snap judgements (e.g. is fairly automatic, unconscious, and effortless [Shleifer, 2012; Ohtsuka, 2016]) -Heuristic or stereotypical (Shleifer, 2012) For clarity, a stereotype is an idea or belief we apply to every like thing or member of a group. For example: I ate a mushroom with a red cap when I was foraging and got sick, so every mushroom with red on it is poisonous; I got snowed by someone on H.K. Insulation’s team, therefore they’re all assholes. System 2 thinking, according to Shleifer (2012), is: -Conscious -Slow -Controlled -Deliberate -Statistical -Suspicious -Requires effort, time, and energy This means it’s biologically costly System 2 thinking typically kicks in when something is ‘sent up’ from System 1. We might feel the need for conscious attention and effort to analyze what’s in front of us or to ‘check our work’ (Shleifer, 2012). To combat superstitions and replace them with more productive routines, you’ll need to use S2 often. While we’re capable of higher-level thinking, we don’t always question and ‘pass things up’ to System 2 due to the ease and low cost of buying back in to our System 1 superstitious thinking. Ease is a key word. ***Here you go If it’s easy to imagine a bad thing happening, it’s hard to ignore the superstition. We know the energy cost of superstitious thinking is low, but so is the relative cost of indulging a superstition. You engage in low-cost behaviors as added protection against the high cost of an undesirable outcome – like a loss (Ohtsuka, 2016). For example, the effort involved in eating the exact same foods and putting gear on in precisely the same way is much lower than the emotional, monetary, status, relational, or opportunity cost of loss. To refresh and summarize, superstitions aren’t only appealing because of their low cost – they also give comfort and feelings of control over the unknown or uncontrollable. Buying into and using superstitions may sound harmless but there’s a downside. Rituals are inflexible preparation programs that may or may not contain superstitious components which don’t objectively impact performance (Taylor & Wilson, 2005). Not completing some piece of the ritual often creates feelings that performance will suffer and is out of our control. When we can’t perform a ritualized routine, our performance may suffer for: lack of confidence in our skills, lower perceptions of control over the situation, negative or defeating thinking about game outcomes, and the belief ‘mystic’ forces won’t work for us. When we identify a superstition’s purpose, we’re able to employ targeted pre-performance routines. Identifying the purpose of a superstition helps with deciding what skills to acquire or build. If the ritual is in place to ensure game outcomes, you might develop skills to help focus on the present, what’s controllable, maintain an optimistic outlook, and redirect outcome or negative ‘what if’ thinking toward: -What encourages trust in your abilities -Strategy -Skills you’ll use -Ways you’ll support or help your team -Ensuring you’re physically and mentally prepared If it’s a ‘I don’t play well without it’ superstition, you may choose to: -Find ways to trust your abilities -Identify what skills you’ll execute and when/how to play certain situations -Find ways to support or help your team -Identify what part of performance you’re concerned about and how you’ll achieve success -Ensuring you’re physically and mentally prepared It may help to ask, ‘have I, in the past, performed well without engaging in superstitious behaviors or after missing something I usually do for a superstitious purpose?’ Occasionally, a stat sheet helps with this question. Realistically, the most you’re able to do is recognize what you’re capable of doing in the present to achieve the greatest chance at success and prime yourself to execute those skills. To do this, we curb thinking about outcomes and organize pre-performance routines. Ideally, a pre-performance routine (PPR) will provide the same sense of trust in your abilities and influence over uncertain situations as a ritual. Employing PPRs improved performance in a number of sports (Phelps & Kulinna, 2015). When you organize a pre-performance routine, it will ideally prime you to perform skills necessary to your sport. Pending your needs, this may mean developing skills to: -Clear your mind of irrelevant thoughts -Manage emotions concerning the upcoming performance -Reassure confidence in skills relevant to what you’re about to do -Focus on skill-specific reminders -Imagine a successful performance just prior to execution One study pointed to an important consideration when implementing a PPR – the possibility of a performance decrement while practicing the routine in place of a superstitious behavior (Foster & Weigand, 2006). While most studies show an improvement (Phelps & Kulinna, 2015), be sure a routine suits your needs and you’ve got adequate time to practice until your performance is at or above the level prior to making a change. You might find this approach helpful or get bang-for-your-buck out of learning how to accept the situation, center yourself, and trust your skills – an ACT approach (Vealey, Low, Peirce, & Quinones-Paredes, 2014). A commonality between pre-performance routines, the ACT approach, and even aspects of confidence-building, is developing trust in your skills. When you build a PPR, be patient and mindful of confirmation biases. It’s tempting to compare present performances – especially if they’re worse – to past successes using superstitious thinking. Before giving up too soon, track your statistics and work with your coach to gather data in order to make accurate comparisons. Allow your first attempt at a pre-performance routine to be a learning experience. If your PPR helps but doesn’t get you where you want to be, find out what worked and what needs changing, then try again. Eventually, your pre-performance routine composed of productive thinking and habits will become second nature, less effortful, and produce desired results. Exercise caution with pregame routines, so you don’t create an ‘I can’t perform without these exact requirements met’ mentality – this is the difference between a routine and a ritual. When you create a routine, ensure everything has a purpose – getting you optimally ready to perform (Taylor & Wilson, 2005). Understand why you’re doing what you’re doing, so you can meet your needs in multiple ways in case the situation calls for a change to what’s typical (e.g. limited space or time, lack of facilities, different equipment, lost items). A routine allows flexibility and ensures you’re prepared to perform – you do things that meet your physical, mental, and nutritional needs with an allowance for realistic variability. You may feel some nerves about executing your routine differently – this can be perfectly normal. If that’s the case, some of the above questions about trusting your abilities and focusing on what you can do will apply well. Have an awareness about if your thoughts becomes catastrophic when some part of your routine is missed – this may mean it’s taking on a ritualistic turn. In organizing a routine, each piece is purposeful, prepares you for performance and, ideally, you have a lot of familiarity with performing it or variations of it. This creates a sense of normalcy for you in a new or stressful context (e.g. new league, new arena, playoffs away or at home) (Red book). Having flexibility with routines for challenging or less-than-optimal settings empowers you to add to your bag of tricks as a goalie, so to speak. Initiating a well-practiced preperformance routine over time helps trigger the ideal intensity and mindset to begin building (blue book). Or, in those less-than-optimal situations, help pull you nearer a place where you’re optimally ready to perform by executing behaviors that tend to create that desired result. It may help to plan low-risk days where you practice a ‘oh, no!’ scenario and do what’s minimally necessary to cross off the ‘mentally ready’ and ‘physically ready’ boxes. Or, less risky, recognize days when something wasn’t exactly right and you still did well or used your versatility and creativity to make what you had work – but don’t make a habit out of it! Sometimes it helps to ask: “If I’m used to warming up a specific way, but can’t because of equipment, space, or some other factor, what desired or necessary result am I hoping for and can it be achieved another way?” Focus on finding an effective routine and using accurate performance assessment to justify its use. Hopefully, understanding why superstitions are appealing and knowing there’s other solutions will help you be a more efficient and self-assured athlete. Find resources on organizing pre-performance routines by reading about other athlete’s experiences, using some self-analysis, contacting a mental skills coach, or exploring what’s available on the Association for Applied Sport Psychology website. References: Damisch, L., Stoberock, B., & Mussweiler, T. (2010). Keep your fingers crossed!: How superstition improves performance. Psychological Science, 21, 1014-1020. Foster, D.J., & Weigand, D.A. (2006). The effect of removing superstitious behavior and introducing a pre-performance routine on basketball free-throw performance. Journal of Applied Sport Psychology, 18, 167-171. Phelps, A., Kulinna, P. (2015). Pre-performance routines followed by free throw shooting accuracy in secondary basketball players Biomedical Human Kinetics, 7, 171-176. Vealey, R.S., Low, W., Pierce, S., & Quinones-Paredes, D. (2014). Choking in Sport: ACT on it! Journal of Sport Psychology in Action, 5, 156-169.
  7. No worries! Played goal for close to 20 years and chose to lean into beer league and enjoy myself instead of playing through grad school. If I couldn't appreciate the occasional chirp and how beer league goes, I wouldn't be able to crank out good content for you guys!
  8. Goalies and skaters ask, 'how do I be a better teammate?' While I can provide guidance, the real experts are typically in the locker room with you. Whether there's someone specific in mind or your asking the question as a general how-to, the best source for answers is your team. Clear communication of needs and preferences can go a long way. Your teammates know or have a general idea about: -What they need from you, so they can perform in-game (i.e. execute on strategy) -What they need from you, so they can be prepared for a game (space and quiet, to talk and joke, someone to stick handle and pass with, a few reps of some type of shot, etc.) -How they prefer to communicate (in-game, after losses, getting feedback, discussing concerns) -Their personal needs after significant game events, like a loss, injury, bad shift, penalty, etc. -The dynamics and functioning of the team from their perspective and their role in it Your teammates might have an idea about all of the above-listed things specific to you, but don't know for certain. Open lines of communication make it easier for everyone on the team to get what they need to play their best, feel supported and like they're providing support, eliminate assumptions or latent frustrations created through a lack of communication, and enjoy the experience of adult league more overall. In having these conversations, be willing to enter them without judgement, objectively, and with a real interest in listening and executing. I hope this helps! By all means, shoot me topics to write about! Keep your stick on the ice, Mike Stacey Stacey and Associates Athletics www.staceyandassociatesathletics.com Twitter: @MikeatSandA Instagram: @S_and_A_Athletics
  9. Hi, SaveByRichter35! I appreciate your enthusiasm and hope the articles help! My name is Mike and I'm a sport psychology coach. I work primarily with hockey players and have had the pleasure of getting to know quite a few goalies over the years! I'll be posting an article tomorrow (8/7/17). Good luck in your next games and enjoy!
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